This morning, I marched in solidarity with Planned Parenthood, as I have each of the last five Good Fridays. And this evening, I gathered with my beloved Lyndale United Church of Christ. In both contexts, I reflected on what Good Friday is and how it's been distorted. During worship, I shared the following words.

Too often, Good Friday in Christian churches have been opportunities to perpetrate crucifixion.  Too many of our Jewish kindred have been murdered in the name of Jesus on this day.  Too many have been abused in a distortion of the “ritual” of Good Friday.  Too often, Good Friday’s remembrance of Jesus’ execution has resulted in the torture of others.
 
But we gather tonight with a radically different understanding of what this night means.  We’ve been taking a journey through Lent, from ashes to the Cross, examining brokenness and what makes for resilience.  We’ve asked the question of how we are able to let go of the toxicity of vengeance and, instead, choose vulnerability. We’ve wrestled with individual, communal and societal brokenness and how we are both perpetrators and targets of oppression.  And, how, amidst it all, we resist the violence, vengeance and oppression through healing and revolutionary joy.
 
But before we can fully claim any joy; before we know resurrection, we must face into the reality of Good Friday. Pain, suffering, abuse, oppression…. These are the all-too-present realities of our day. Crucifixion happened and it continues to happen. But tonight, we name and claim the ways in which Jesus’ crucifixion is a moment of God’s radical solidarity with all who are oppressed, wounded and experience violence.  We name and claim God’s willingness to experience in God’s body what it was to be executed by the Powerful of the world, executed in the same way that countless people and the planet suffer at the hands of Power today.  Good Friday does not valorize crucifixion, it does not celebrate violence.  Good Friday condemns all that would break or injure God’s precious creation.  

I have recently joined the MAM Network, a group of Minister *Activist* Moms. It is a community of folks seeking to work religiously for justice AND raise their children well. It's not an easy balance.

As part of that network, I was asked to reflect on raising a daughter amidst an activist family. Here is what I shared:

The day after Prop 8 passed in California in 2008, I was asked to speak at a local rally in downtown Minneapolis. We made the decision that the whole family would attend. After the speakers finished, we marched through the valleys of skyscrapers chanting “Hey, hey, ho, ho, discrimination has got to go” and hearing it echo off the glass and metal. Our daughter, Shannon, was not quite two years old at the time and sporting a purple cast on her foot from a misstep on the stairs which broke three bones. She held our hands, walked with an uneven gait and chanted along with us in her fiercest voice.... 

[For the full blog, visit: ​http://www.themamnetwork.org/#!Raising-Shannon/a3xnp/56e8abc00cf282fc9b002ca5 ]